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Lately, I've been struggling a bit with personal image as I walk that shortened path to labor and delivery.
Comments like...
"You're really big."
"Are you full of helium?"
"That baby's gonna fall out."
"Sure there aren't twins in there?"
"Any day now, right?"
"Ha! Woah...you're ready."
...make me feel like a whale. I still have, as of today, a month to go until this baby is officially due. I know I'm big, but I'm a small, fit person. So pregnancy consumes me and I'm okay with that. But still, I'd be a liar if I said the "big" comments weren't stinging just a tiny bit lately, even though they weren't meant to. But as quickly as they sting me, I try hard to turn them into compliments. Because truly, I love being pregnant and I know that my body is doing an amazing, wonderful thing. And I know that I am more than this giant belly. I am a mother, carrying a child. And if that's not beautiful, then I don't even know what is.
So, go ahead. Say what you will to me, I'll laugh it off in due time.
Because I am "beautiful, deep down to my soul."
And so are you.
Question: Moms, hear any comments when you were pregnant that absolutely irked you?
2 comments:
My favorite was, "there's no way you'll make it to your due date." Learned to just let it roll off my shoulders. :)
Love the F. Scott Fitzgerald quote!
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